April 24, 2012

Update {Part 1}

Okay, I have to get this blog updated before any more time passes....I'm already so far behind!  We moved and that is what has been taking all of my time!  It all happened so fast and unexpectedly right after the first of the year.  I knew the year was gonna get off to a crazy start, but had no idea how crazy!  We got Grammy moved back to Boston, she was happy and we all felt great about her decision.  After almost three years of her living with us, it was weird not having her around and we were adjusting to the new normal.  She had a great first month or so and then her health started declining.  She made the decision to have surgery, which for her will be quite risky and she was told her chances are not very good at all.  That is coming up this Thursday and of course we are all praying that she pulls through.  We spent time with her last week up in Boston and had a "life celebration" party for her ~ many of her lifelong friends were there, girls she's known since she was 5 years old, sharing stories and laughing with her.
It really was a celebration and was a wonderful time for all of us!

{Celebrating New Years with Grammy at PF Changs}
       By the second week of January we were ready for some routine
and after a long Winter break had started back to homeschooling.
 {For Classics we started White Fang, we continued our study of the
US states and also started our study on the Animal Kingdom.}
That's also the week that our realtor called to say that a family was interested in buying our house ~ but having been through several almost sold experiences before, we didn't give it much thought.  After the first week of February, he called back to tell us that not only are they still interested and moving forward, they want to close by the beginning of March!  Of course we panicked....we had nothing packed and we had nowhere to go!  So that weekend we headed out on a house hunting journey.  But first we had to celebrate a very special birthday ~ Elliot's 9th!!
We cancelled the little party we had planned and instead had a family breakfast celebration that was wonderful and he claimed was the best birthday ever!:)
 {Making a wish}
  Happy 9th Birthday Elliot!!!
 For years we had dreamed about where we wanted to be and now we could finally make that happen, so we headed out that weekend very excited, in search of our new home!
 Instead we came home defeated and afraid (me), not only did we not find a house,
it became clear that it wasn't the place for us after all, eek!  Long story short, we finally found a new place to call home and absolutely love it!  We're surprised at where we ended up and how we got here ~ it's a story of faith really.

 "Some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle and end.
Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment
and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next ~
delicious ambiguity."
~ Gilda Radner
 
  The next few weeks were complete chaos.  With hubby gone for work most of February and March, I had to pretty much do everything myself.  Of course he worked like crazy on the weekends and did what he could, but it was many nights of working until 4am and stress like I've never experienced before.
 And here's the kicker, we downsized in a major way, so we had to get rid of soooo much.  And fast.  We sold what we could, donated a ton and at the end just gave whatever anyone would take.  I might have even begged some people. :)

 Somehow we managed to get it all done and were finally ready to leave ~
but it certainly was bittersweet.

The boys were able to get a lot of great time with all of their best buds before leaving.
A few of them came to hang out up until just minutes before we pulled away. :)
We sure do miss our friends!!!

We ended up not closing until the second week of April, but were still out of the house by mid-March.  I don't think we'll ever forget pulling into our new place ~ it was about 1am in the morning, two days later than we'd planned, more exhausted than we could've imagined, having overcome more hurdles than we thought we could stand and certainly more than we could list here ~ getting out of the car, looking up and being in awe of the completely star-filled sky ~ we all immediately noticed it, you just couldn't miss it and it somehow felt like a reward for all that we had just been through.  It was one of those amazing moments where you just had to be there.  We all went right to sleep, the four of us (and the dogs:) collapsed onto the mattresses in the middle of the floor of our new home, having no idea what lie ahead, but excited for the new start!  Although we're completely surrounded by boxes and some days it feels like we're drowning in them, we are happy and doing well, getting settled into our new home.  

I will finish Part 2 tomorrow, which is much shorter and mostly pictures ~
then I should be up to date, yippee!!

15 Thoughts:

Erin said...

Oh my goodness Lori! I am exhausted just reading about this. I am so sorry about Grammy's health troubles, and I pray that she will get well. I know you all love her so much, and you must be terribly worried. And moving??? Did you stay in the same area? State? I have had to pack on my own a few times when my husband was in school. It is back breaking! You must be so happy to finally be in your new home. I am sure that your home will be blessed with joy and soon...
with a new daughter! Hang in there!

Love Being A Nonny said...

Oh. My. Word. WOW is all I can say. Can't wait for part II. Tell me. Tell me.

Jboo said...

Wow -- you've been so busy!! What an adventure. Your description of your first night in your new place is so sweet! And that 9 year old -- adorable!

janet

LSU Melanie said...

Wow! Can't wait to hear more:) I have missed your sweet pictures:)Congratulations on your new home!!!
Melanie
Lsumel@yahoo.com

Just Ask Beth said...

I have missed you!! Glad it was just a move..phew! Hope Grammy will do well witht he risky surgery..what a brave lady! Cannot wait for part two!! Pictures please!

Dawn said...

You have been a busy Girl!! Oh my...I am so anxious to hear about your new home..yes, did you leave the state?? Are you close to the beach :)..so sorry to hear about Grammy and pray her surgery goes well this week! xo

Melissa said...

Praying the surgery goes well and she pulls through.

We want to move soon, but to a bigger house because we've outgrown out condo with 1 baby and we want to have another in a couple years. I am looking forward to more space and a yard, but I am dreading the packing and unpacking. I'm exhausted just reading your blog post!

Living Life in the Lowcountry said...

How exciting! Can't wait to hear where you are now!
Will be praying that all goes well for Grammy!

Jenn said...

Glad to see an update and that you are all doing well! Praying for Grammy!

Blessings,
Jenn

Susan said...

Wow! I'm so excited to hear about your new house!!!! I'm also proud of the simplicity I'm seeing as I need this motivation and my hunch is there are many more of "us" that need to read this! Thank you for sharing! I know that big or small, it will be beautiful! We had some Indian friends once that used to say "where there is room in the heart, there is room in the home"..

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the update! Hoping all goes well with Grammy's surgery and wishing you and your family the best in your new home! Love the photos, especially the one of the dogs sleeping! Blessings, Wen

3 Peanuts said...

I will pray for Grammy today. I hope all goes well with her surgery.

Kim

French Marianne said...

So glad to see you back !!! Happy to read you 4 + two furry companions. Do you still live in the same state or habe you moved far away? Kind regards from France (have you read CCCWA has matched till 4th Sept. Your time will come soon).

Olivia: (mostly) Happy Homemaker said...

Wow! You have been busy!

Having recently moved, I know what an overwhelming task it is- mentally and physically! Prayers that you all are feeling settled and for your Grammy.

ms. mindless said...

Oh my goodness! I've been out of the blogging loop for about a month and you have been up to MAJOR changes! How exciting for your family. Moving is never fun, but you inspire me so much with your ability the find the joy in every aspect of your life! Thanks for sharing.

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